If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
(Source: alionoftherock)
guys like to complain about how hard it is to get a girlfriend and how they’re always being put in the ‘friend-zone’
maybe if they actually TRIED building an attractive nest out of pebbles they would find a female to mate with before the harsh winter came, did they ever consider THAT
Nice Guy 101
usually if you think all girls only date douchebags, it’s because you’re a douchebag.
Commentary. Stop blaming women and other men for your lack of success with the opposite sex.
Legit friend-zone shit on my dash
This is just your friendly reminder that men use the term friend-zone to rape women and you are NOT, as a man, allowed to reclaim it.
Period.
Even if you’ve heard a woman use the phrase once.
When shit like this exists (HUGE TRIGGER WARNING FOR RAPE), you lose your right to throw this word around.
If you choose to use it, you are an asshole who supports rape culture.
Please, please, please stop.
Check your damn privilege as a female who will never experience the friend zone.
I don’t think you understand - a majority of men do not think it is okay to rape and if you’re getting butthurt over a damned rage comic, then get the fuck off the internet.
Females don’t fucking understand the frustration, the depression and the desperation of the friend zone. It’s the worst goddamned place to be - especially if you’re lead on.
Seriously. Check your fucking privilege.
The experiences of raped women > men’s feelings of disappointment
OMG Jenna, did some asshole seriously just tell you to check your privilege for calling out rape culture?!
Will no one think of the Nice Guys in the friend zone? THEIR PAIN IS THE WORST PAIN.
I…uh…I need a drink. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?
lmaoooooo what even this is
Can I just add that I loooove how men use the “silly women will never understand how much the friend zone HURTS” argument even when it’s um completely untrue? Because honestly I don’t know anyone who hasn’t experienced an unrequited crush at some point in their life, no matter what their gender is. Sorry fellas, but you aren’t the only ones to have ever pined for someone who didn’t return your feelings. I mean isn’t that what Taylor Swift’s “You Belong With Me” is all about?
Because god fucking forbid people have agency over their feelings and their bodies and shit
wow
lol for days @ some dudebro telling a female to check her privilege
lol even harder @ said dudebro trying to say that the worst place in the world to ever be in is ‘the friend zone’. THE FRIEND ZONE. POOR PRECIOUS BABY. I AIN’T NEVER HEARD OF A STRUGGLE SO TUFF IN MY LYFE.
also that meme is really fucking disturbing :|
I will say this: to all those men complaining about this, I agree with you: you definitely don’t deserve to be put into the friend zone. Your entitlement and lack of respect for a woman (read: a HUMAN) and her wishes proves what a horrible shitstain of a person you are and I fail to see why anyone would find the idea of your friendship at all appealing or worthwhile. Lick dirty socks away from me. xoxo
CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE, WOMEN. How dare you talk about how men have no entitlement to you or your body. Don’t you realise how offensive and oppressive you’re being? You can never understand the profound suffering of men, so don’t try to speak over them! Your feelings mean nothing when compared to their suffering at your hands.
Sobbing with laughter at libertarians-and-stoya. Sorry you’re so beta, Son.
(Source: greaterandmoreterrible)
Post that matrix picture saying “What if I told you that the friendzone is bullshit…” on facebook,
some guy from my primary school is all
What if I told you friendzoning isn’t bullshit because girls with guy friends who put months/years into caring for a girl, getting to know her and falling in love with her, would rather go out their their hotter friend?
Fucking bam.And what if I also told you, that not every guy in the world only gets to know a girl for sex.
*Dramatic piano music in a low octave*
Boy, it is not her fault that your passive-aggressive, beta ass was ignored because you didn’t make your intentions clear from the beginning. Also, strong ‘friendship’ if you just want to get in her pants. I know this might be hard to hear, but you aren’t entitled to shit from anyone
If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
Welcome, Ghosts.: Why the "friendzone" is bullshit and self-proclaimed "nice guys" are misogynists:
As defined by urban dictionary, the friendzone is…
“When you are expected to support a girl you really like while she searches for a smarter, richer, and more handsome boyfriend. There is little you can do without feeling like a dick. All in all, one of the meanest things a girl can do,…
(Source: angels-and-angles)
neeeerrrrrrrrrrrdddddss
1) Probably don’t refer to women as “females” (with quotes), it makes you sound like a serial killer
2) Don’t befriend women with the goal of having sex with them and then get upset when they (surprise!!) thought your friendship was genuine
3) neeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrds
As a “FEMALE” I say good riddance!
Why do these clingy, socially stunted manchildren act like them deciding not to bother us anymore is somehow a big loss that we should all feel terrible about? Like all the girls who ever turned them down will read it and go, “Oh no please come back, I didn’t mean what I said when I told you I’d literally rather inhale sewing needles than date you! I will sleep with you after all, anything to get you to stay, because I do so enjoy your company!”
Personally I jump up from my chair, crack open a bottle of champagne, and run around the room cheering whenever I read the manifesto of another awkward self-entitled loser deciding to give up persuing women. It’s like my birthday and christmas came at once!
Reblogging for omgshelooksjustlike’s commentary. Bolded for truth and hilarity.
I sort of have issue with the first commenter labelling the ‘nice guy’ a nerd because while nerd culture can be sexist, most of the male feminist allies I know are nerds.
Why the friendzone is bullshit and self-proclaimed “nice guys” are misogynists
As defined by urban dictionary, the friendzone is…
“When you are expected to support a girl you really like while she searches for a smarter, richer, and more handsome boyfriend. There is little you can do without feeling like a dick. All in all, one of the meanest things a girl can do, whether they mean it or not.”
and ”The perennial location of nice guys everywhere.”
Although this hypothetical situation could work both ways, friendzone is almost always applied to a man who is rejected by a woman. Therefore, there is something inherently unequal, something inherently sexist about the term “friendzone”. But what and why?
From my experience, this is what friend zone is. A “nice guy” pursues a woman, but isn’t forward with his intentions from the get-go like, say, a “jerk”. The woman is pleased to see a man who is interested in her not as a sexual object but as a human being and wishes for things to stay that way. The man is not satisfied with seeing the woman as a human being because being “expected to support a girl” is a bad deal if she’s not putting out.
Before I delve into the sociological aspects of this, I just want to point out that ”friendzone” is no more pleasant for a woman than it is a man. First, that is to say unrequited love works both ways, but the person who doesn’t return affections is considered mean only when she’s a woman. And second, what option does the woman have in a traditional “friendzone” situation? Just stop talking to a close friend to avoid “leading him on”? In high school, I found out my best friend of 2 years liked me. Having to tell him I didn’t feel the same way and being immediately ex-communicated via Facebook status (“Thanks for wasting my time”) was one of the worst things that ever happened to me. Were our two years of friendship invalid because I didn’t want anything more? Was all our time together really wasted because there was no hypothetical pay off?
Guys who do this and claim to be “nice guys” are the worst misogynists because of their sense of entitlement toward a woman. They make investments in property and expect their dividends. They are fake friends. They are selfish. And they will jump at the chance to vilify you and victimize themselves when their attempts at manipulation don’t work. Clearly, “friendzone” is the remnant of a phenomenon that has plagued women since the beginning of time: women are not independent creatures. Our love lives exist only in the context of a man’s desire. When we make independent decisions, we are subject to a host of derogatory terms. “Slut” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “yes”. “Friendzone” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “no”.
(Source: cruentamors)
